• Money Mindset

    What My Childhood Taught Me (& Didn’t) About Money

    The Things I Wish I Knew Like many of us, growing up I never really understood how money worked. I just knew we never seemed to have enough of it. We weren’t poor by definition. My mom worked full-time, and she worked hard. We lived in a lower to middle class neighborhood, I went to a decent public school. On the surface, things looked okay – but behind closed doors, money was always tight. Despite her steady income, we lived paycheck-to-paycheck. Family vacations were unheard of. Back-to-school shopping wasn’t exciting and filled with name-brand clothes and shoes. We didn’t eat out frequently, and we didn’t buy new things unless they…

  • The Journey

    Before the Budget: The Shift That Changed Everything

    The Moment I Knew We Needed a Plan I don’t remember every detail of the moments – or the life – before the budget. But I remember how powerless it felt. I was reactive instead of deliberate. I scrambled when all of the eggs had already left the basket, instead of planning ahead where the eggs should go. And I was hoping instead of knowing. The moment I picked up a notebook and gave every dollar a job? Everything started to change! What I Thought Budgeting Was Growing up, the word budget wasn’t just misunderstood – it was almost taboo. It came in with an air of restriction, stress, and…